One of the biggest misconceptions about great communicators is that they’re brilliant talkers. In reality, they are often even better observers. Actors learn this very quickly. We might spend weeks rehearsing a performance, but every audience is different. The script stays the same. The people don’t. Some audiences laugh more readily. Some are quieter. Some need time to trust you. Others are with you from the moment you walk on stage. The mistake is trying to force every audi

Every decent actor knows a scene doesn't start when you speak. It starts the moment you cross the threshold. The audience has already formed an impression of your character before a single line is delivered - from how you enter, how you carry your weight, where your eyes go first. Meetings work in much the same way. By the time you've pulled out a chair and said ‘sorry I'm late,’ people have already started deciding how much space you occupy in that room. Most of us walk in o

Many people think excellent communication is mainly about speaking well. Actors know there is another skill that is equally, if not more, important. One of the lessons decent actors learn is that fine performances are grounded in advanced listening skills. If you’ve ever watched a compelling scene on stage or screen, chances are the actor isn’t simply waiting for their turn to speak like a child in a nativity play (adorable though that is). More likely that the actor is fully

People often assume actors are naturally confident. I can confirm this is not always the case. Over the years I’ve worked with talented performers who still experience nerves before walking on stage, stepping in front of a camera, or speaking to an audience. The difference isn’t that actors never feel nervous. It’s that they learn to use their nerves to enhance their concentration, and not to wait for confidence before acting. Confidence usually comes second One of the bigge

(film still by Ella Frost) Executive presence is one of those phrases everyone seems to use and few people can define. Ask ten leaders what it means and you’ll probably get ten different answers. Confidence. Gravitas. Authority. Charisma. After decades working as both an actor and a communication coach, I think it’s essence is something much simpler: Executive presence isn’t about looking impressive. It's about being present, composed, and making other people feel confident i